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"Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you." and "When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place"Instead of giving myself reasons why I can't, I give myself reasons why I can." because always "When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us."by ISI H


Friday, December 27, 2013

WAYS TO STOP THINKING DEEP

It's a golden rule to think before you speak, but you can run into trouble when you think so much that you fail to act, or think yourself into a state of uncontrollable anxiety. Are you looking for a way to stop thinking too much?

                                           

                                        A..Letting Go of Your Thoughts

 

1
Accept that you're thinking too much. Just like eating, thinking is something we need to do to survive, so it is sometimes hard to judge when you are doing too much of it. However, there are several red flags that you are doing too much thinking for your own good. Here are a few of them:
  • Are you consumed by the same thought over and over again? Are you not making progress by thinking about this particular thing? If so, this may be a sign that you should move on.
  • Have you analyzed the same situation from a million angles? If you've found too many ways to look at something before you decide how to act, you may be being counterproductive.
  • Have you enlisted the help of your twenty closest friends in thinking about a particular thing? If so, then it's time to realize that you can only ask for so many opinions about the same idea before you drive yourself insane.
  • Are people constantly telling you to stop over-thinking things? Do people tease you for brooding, being a philosopher, or staring out of rainy windows all the time? If so, they may have a point.
2
Meditate. If you feel like you don't know how to stop thinking, you need to learn what it's like to "let go" of your thoughts, so that it's something you can do deliberately.[1] Imagine that thinking is like breathing; you do it all the time, without even realizing it. But if you need to, you can hold your breath. Meditating will help you learn how to release your thoughts.
  • Just spending 15-20 minutes meditating every morning can make a dramatic impact on your ability to stay in the present and let go of all of your nagging thoughts.
  • You can also meditate at night to help yourself wind down.

3
Exercise. Running or even walking vigorously can help you take your mind off of all of those annoying thoughts and to focus on your body. Participating in something particularly active, like power yoga, martial arts or beach volleyball, will have you so focused on your body that you won't have time for your thoughts. Here are some great things to try:
  • Join a circuit gym. Having to switch to a new machine every minute when you hear that bell ring will keep you from getting lost in your thoughts.
  • Go hiking. Being around nature and seeing the beauty and stillness around you will keep you more focused on the present moment.
  • Go swimming. Swimming is such a physical activity that it's even harder to swim and think.
                                       
4
Say your ideas out loud. Once you've said everything aloud, even if you're talking to yourself, you've begun the process of letting go. Walk around and pace if you have to. Once you've put your ideas out there, you've begun the process of putting them out into the world and out of your thoughts.
  • You can say them aloud to yourself, your cat, or to a trusted friend.

5
Ask for advice. You may have exhausted your own thinking power, but someone else might be able to offer a different perspective that makes the decision clearer. This can help let go of your troubling thoughts. Your friend can make you feel better, can ease your problems, and can also make you realize when you're spending way too much time thinking.
  • Besides, if you're hanging out with a friend, you're not just thinking, right? That's something.

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

MBONI NDANI YA IRINGA TOWN

Mtangazaji wa kipidi cha THE MBONI SHOW kinacho rushwa na televisheni ya EATV yupo mkoani iringa akijumuika na watoto yatima katika kusheherekea.



ghafla iyo imejumuisha zaidi ya watoto 200 mkoani hapa na imechukua vituo vitatu tu ikiwemo tosamaganga, upendo center na kituo kilichoko wilaya ya mufindi kiitwacho moyo kwa moyo.

mbali na hapo alipata fursa ya kuendesha kpindi chake pamoja na watoto hao. sherehe hizi zlifanyika katika ukumbi wa highland uliopo iringa mjini.














Friday, December 6, 2013

TUTAKUKUMBUKA MZEE NELSON MANDELA

Ni moja ya viongozi mahiri sana duniani walio hitaji haki na usawa na walio hitaji kila mtu awe na maisha mazuri, Nelson Mandela alikua ni mmoja wapo.
                                           
Ni kiongozi aliejali na kuhakikisha nchi ya Afrika kusini inakua inatawaliwa na waafrika kusini hii ndio ilikua azimio lake kubwa na akafanikiwa katika hili pia ndio swala lililo onekana ni jambo busara kwa watu wengi duniani na ndilo lililo mpa mtu huyu ari pamoja na kufungwa na makaburu hakujali hilo aliendelea kupambana kupinga itikadi za ubaguzi wa rangi. yeye alikua mwalimu kwa watu wengi.

Mzee Nelson Mandela maarufu kama Mzee Madiba amefariki akiwa na umri wa miaka 95 Mungu ailaze mahala pema peponi mzee nelson mandela amiin.

ALWAYAYS WE WILL REMEMBER MANDELA